Bleaching my hair to a gold color, but my hair is black, and I need to perm it, Scared I might damage my hair?

I'm black and indian, but my hair shows most features of relaxed hair, well I need a perm urgent! and I also want to dye it. I dotn know if it's safe to dye it first then bleach it or bleach it first then dye it. Im not really the best when it comes to knowing about bleaching and dying hair and all that stuff. I also want to dye it light enough so that if I want to dye it red or pink or cool colors it will show up. I plan on dying it without the help of a salon so what do you think? And do you think my hair will gert damaged badly?

Bleaching my hair to a gold color, but my hair is black, and I need to perm it, Scared I might damage my hair?
I don't know much about relaxed hair. I know if you try to bleach your hair from black to blond, you are stripping your hair of its natural color and i can be very damaging. Your hair will feel like its been fried. Suggest you don't do it that way, but to dye your hair lighter overtime. Go a little lighter this time and then next time go a little more lighter. Long process but at least you won't end up with fried hair.
Reply:Don't dye and perm your hair.. it's too damaging for your hair.. I get my hair permed and I take really good care of it so it doesn't get dried out or anything... the same goes for dying too..
Reply:yeah youre hair will fall out if not in good condition first get it semi dye it might work a little but theres no chemicals tell me if it works
Reply:I would absolutely recommend going to a stylist. Perm and lighteners can *sometimes* be performed on the same head of hair, but it will take a specialist in the field to truly access what your hair can reasonably withstand, and gentler products will need to be applied. Your hair type in particular is tricky, and unless extreme care and a stylist knowledgeable with your hair type are utilized, your chances of hair breakage are extremely high. I know this sounds very costly, but the cost of repairing damaged hair to a point of it looking acceptable generally runs higher. I think it would be a very wise investment in the long run, and will save you a lot of grief in the end. Also, have you ever considered clip in swatches of pink or red? This may be a great option that will not only save you a lot of money in the long run, but completely eliminate the need to have an unnecessary chemical service which is questionable to the health of your hair.